Create Anyway: Embracing Your Unique Path to Personal Expression
- Bruklan Starr LeFay
- Nov 26
- 13 min read
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Hey there, my Fantastical Fairies and radiant Magical Starr-bursts! And yes, I see you too. The ones giggling your way through a full-on case of Bruklan-itis (don’t worry, it’s the most fabulous thing you could ever “catch”). ✨
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Creating is a fundamental part of being human. From our first breath, we start shaping our reality through our thoughts, actions, and creations. However, as we progress through life, we often face obstacles that can stifle our creative spirit. The fact is, everyone creates differently. Embracing your unique path to personal expression is vital. In this post, we will explore why you should create anyway, despite challenges, and how this can lead to a more fulfilling life.
The Essence of Creation
There is a quiet moment, somewhere between the inhale of possibility and the exhale of self-doubt, where creation lives. It’s subtle, like a whisper curled inside the heart, tugging gently at your attention. It’s the unshaped dream, the unfinished sentence, the unnamed color shimmering just beneath your awareness.
Creation isn’t about perfection.
It isn’t about applause, validation, or being the “best.”
Creation is the soul stretching its fingers toward the world, murmuring,
“Here… let me show you who I am becoming.”
Every idea you’ve ever had, every spark you’ve ever carried, has been a piece of you trying to express itself. Even the ideas you abandoned, the ones you only wrote on napkins or thought about in the shower, yes, even those, are part of your creative lineage.
Creation is the most natural thing about being human.
We are born to build.
Born to shape.
Born to express.
Born to leave traces of ourselves on the world before we journey beyond it.
Yet, ironically, the thing we are most designed for is often the very thing we doubt the most.
But you, yes, you, were meant to create.
Not because the world demands it.
Not because you must.
But because something inside you longs to be free.
So create.
Create when it’s easy.
Create when it’s messy.
Create when your voice trembles.
Create when you feel like a beginner.
Create anyway.
Creation is not just the domain of artists, writers, or musicians; it extends to every aspect of life. Think of a chef experimenting with flavors, a gardener nurturing a garden to life, or a parent creating a loving atmosphere for their children. Each of these acts is a form of creation.
When we create, we engage with our deepest thoughts and feelings, allowing us to express ourselves in ways that mere words cannot communicate. This outlet is critical for mental and emotional health. Whether sketching a drawing or cooking for loved ones, creation helps us process experiences, connect with others, and gain a deeper understanding of ourselves.
Overcoming Doubts and Fears
Doubt has a cunning way of sounding like the truth.
It knows your insecurities well and speaks them in your own voice.
“Who cares what you make?”
“Someone else already did it better.”
“You’re not ready.”
“You’re not skilled enough.”
“Who do you think you are?”
Fear likes to masquerade as logic.
It says it’s protecting you, but really, it’s keeping your magic locked away.
And here’s the sweetest secret:
Everyone, yes, every creator you admire, felt the same fears.
The difference is not their talent.
The difference is their willingness.
They created anyway.
And so will you.
Remember this:
Confidence is not a prerequisite for creation.
It is a result of creation.
Courage blooms after you act, not before.
Your hands learn the rhythm by moving.
Your voice strengthens by speaking.
Your vision clarifies by experimenting.
Every masterpiece on earth began with a shaky first step.
So honor those trembles.
They are proof that you are alive and growing.
Let them guide you forward, not hold you back.
Every human on this planet has their own creative journey to embrace. Comparison can steal your joy, so instead of measuring yourself against others, focus on the fulfillment that comes from creating. Your creations are valid and valuable, even if they don’t resonate with everyone.
The Power of Personal Reality
Your personal reality, the inner landscape sculpted by your experiences, dreams, heartbreaks, triumphs, and curiosities is the most unique treasure you possess. No one else has your story. No one else has walked through the exact fields of your inner world.
And that matters.
Everything you create even if it seems simple, small, or imperfect carries the unmistakable scent of you. Your energy. Your worldview. Your frequency.
You are not competing with anyone.
You are translating the universe through your own lens.
Your personal reality is a prism.
And when the light hits it…
beautiful things happen.
When you create, you aren’t just making “content.”
You’re building doorways into your inner world. Doorways others can walk through and find resonance, solace, or inspiration.
That is the power of sharing your reality.
It turns personal truth into communal medicine.
Creating your personalized reality is a crucial aspect of our time on this planet. Each of us views the world uniquely, shaped by our experiences, beliefs, and desires. When we embrace our individuality and create from this standpoint, we enrich the tapestry of human experience.
Your art may not always be understood, and that’s perfectly okay. What truly matters is that you have faith in what you're creating. This authenticity lends power and meaning to your work, allowing you to connect with others who appreciate your journey.
Embracing the Journey
Oh, this journey.
Messy.
Chaotic.
Beautiful.
Breathtaking.
Utterly human.
The creative path is not linear.
There will be days when you feel unstoppable, electric with inspiration, alive with momentum.
And there will be days when you feel stuck, uncertain, or disconnected from your own brilliance.
Both days matter.
Both days are sacred.
The journey of creation is not about rushing from point A to point B.
It’s about becoming the version of yourself who can hold, honor, and channel the ideas that want to be born through you.
Sometimes that means melting down old limitations.
Sometimes it means resting, recalibrating, reconnecting with your heart.
Sometimes it means walking away and returning with new eyes.
The journey is not a straight road; it’s a spiral.
You will revisit themes, fears, and dreams over and over. Each time rising higher, seeing deeper, understanding more.
Embrace every twist and turn.
They are shaping you into the artist you were always meant to be.
Creation is not just about the final product; it's about the process itself. Every step in your creative journey presents an opportunity for personal growth and self-discovery. Instead of viewing challenges as roadblocks, consider them stepping stones leading to insights and breakthroughs.
When you face difficulties, remind yourself why you began creating in the first place. Whether it’s the joy of drawing, the thrill of baking, or the satisfaction of writing, reconnecting with your “why” can reignite your motivation and help you persevere through tough times.
The Importance of Community
While creation begins within, it blossoms beautifully when shared with others who understand the fire that burns inside you.
Finding community, whether in person or online, means finding mirrors of your own creative soul. People who don’t just tolerate your ideas but celebrate them. People who lift you up when doubt sits heavily on your shoulders. People who say, “You’re not crazy; you’re brilliant. Keep going.”
Community gives you courage.
Community gives you accountability.
Community gives you connection.
You don’t need a large community.
You simply need an aligned one.
And if you haven’t found yours yet you soon will.
Community often reveals itself once you begin expressing your authentic self.
Your people cannot find you if you’re hiding.
But when you start shining, even a little, they arrive like birds sensing the first warmth of spring.
You are not meant to walk this path alone.
Take the time to share your work and seek constructive feedback. This exchange can open up new perspectives and opportunities that you might not find on your own. Remember, you are not alone in this journey, and there is strength in numbers.
Creating Anyway: A Call to Action
Let this be your sign.
Your invitation.
Your gentle but persistent nudge from the Universe.
Create.
Create because you feel like it.
Create because you don’t.
Create because something inside you wants attention.
Create because something outside you needs your light.
Don’t wait for permission.
Don’t wait for the perfect plan.
Don’t wait for the ideal version of yourself.
Begin now.
Exactly as you are.
With exactly what you have.
Your future self, the one who accomplished everything you dream of, looks back on this moment lovingly and whispers, “Thank you for starting.”
Finding Inspiration in Everyday Life
Inspiration is not always a grand lightning bolt from the heavens. More often, it’s a soft breeze brushing past you, hoping you’ll notice.
It hides in the steam rising from your morning tea.
In the way the sunlight dances on your kitchen floor.
In overheard conversations.
In the rhythm of your footsteps during a quiet walk.
In the laughter of strangers.
In the tear you didn’t let fall.
In the dreams you can’t quite interpret.
Life is a mosaic of tiny miracles waiting to be translated into expression.
Train your eyes to see beauty where others rush past it.
Train your heart to listen between the lines of ordinary moments.
Train your spirit to welcome inspiration in all its forms.
You don’t have to chase inspiration.
You simply have to open the door when it knocks.
Journaling can aid this process. Jot down thoughts, observations, and sparks of inspiration. This habit will cultivate your creativity and serve as a valuable resource when motivation wanes.
The Role of Mindfulness in Creation
Mindfulness is the gentle art of returning home to yourself, to your breath, to the present moment.
When paired with creation, it becomes a powerful catalyst.
Mindfulness slows the mind enough for ideas to land softly.
It quiets the noise long enough for your true voice to emerge.
It invites you to be fully present with the work in front of you whether that’s writing a chapter, sketching in your notebook, singing a melody, or brainstorming your next project.
When you create mindfully, something extraordinary happens:
you stop forcing.
You start flowing.
You begin to trust that the idea knows where it's going.
You become a vessel of being curious, receptive, and surrendering but still intentional.
Creativity blooms best when the mind is open and unhurried,
when you can listen to your intuition,
when you allow yourself to drift gently into the current instead of fighting against it.
Let mindfulness be your anchor as you create worlds inside the world.
Celebrating Your Achievements
We live in a society that teaches us to skip the celebration and rush straight to the next task.
But you, sweet creator, deserve to honor every victory, no matter how small.
Did you write one paragraph?
Celebrate.
Did you brainstorm three new ideas?
Celebrate.
Did you show up even though you were tired, unsure, or uninspired?
Celebrate.
Every step forward is evidence of devotion.
Every effort is proof that you are choosing your path on purpose.
Every creative act, no matter how tiny, strengthens your identity as a creator.
Don’t minimize your progress.
Don’t overlook your growth.
Don’t wait for the big breakthrough to applaud yourself.
Celebrate the journey as it unfolds.
Celebrate who you are becoming.
Celebrate the courage it takes to keep going.
Because you deserve it.
You always have.
Share your milestones with friends that uplift you or document them in your journal. Celebrating achievements not only affirms your commitment to creating but can also inspire others to pursue their passions.
The Path of Creation
In the end, creation is less about what you make and more about who you become in the process.
It’s about peeling back the layers of fear, doubt, and conditioning until your authentic voice sparkles in the light.
It’s about learning to trust yourself, your impulses, your instincts, your intuition.
It’s about discovering that your dreams were never random; they were instruction.
The path of creation is a path of awakening.
A path of self-acceptance.
A path of spiritual alignment.
A path of deep personal truth.
Your path will not look like anyone else’s.
It isn’t meant to.
So walk this path with courage.
Walk it with tenderness.
Walk it with fire in your spirit and softness in your steps.
Create in the dark.
Create in the light.
Create when you feel unstoppable.
Create when you feel uncertain.
Create when the world sees you.
Create when no one is watching.
Create because it is your nature.
Create because it is your liberation.
Create because it is your legacy.
And above all…
Create anyway.
The world needs what only you can bring.
So, move forward and create!
The “Create Anyway” Ritual: A Ceremony of Returning to Yourself
This ritual is meant to be done anytime you feel blocked, doubtful, overwhelmed…
or simply when your soul whispers, “I want to create.”
Perform it in the morning to set the tone for your day, or in the evening to reconnect with your inner world.
It takes about 10–15 minutes, but you’re free to stretch it into a whole dreamy hour if that feels delicious.
Step 1 - Prepare a Little Sacred Space
Choose a quiet corner such as a desk, a floor cushion, your bed, anywhere that feels safe and soft to your spirit.
Add one simple item that symbolizes your creative essence.
This could be:
a notebook
a favorite pen
a paintbrush
a crystal
a candle
a piece of jewelry
a feather
a photo
or just your open hands
Let this object be your creative totem for the ritual.
Step 2 - Light Your Intention
If you enjoy candles, light one.
If not, simply close your eyes and imagine a small flame glowing in the center of your chest.
Let that flame represent your creative spark. Timid perhaps, but undeniably alive.
Say softly (or in your heart):
“I honor the spark inside me. I choose to create, even when it feels hard.”
Let the flame grow a little brighter.
Let it warm your chest.
Let it remind you: you were born to express.
Step 3 - Release the Voices That Hold You Back
Place your hand on your heart.
Take a slow breath in.
Exhale gently.
Whisper or think:
“I release fear.
I release comparison.
I release perfectionism.
I release the belief that I am not enough.”
Each word is a stone lifted from your shoulders.
Feel the softness returning to your body.
Step 4 - Call Your Creative Self Forward
Now imagine your most creative self standing before you.
This version of you is bold, vibrant, unashamed, and deeply connected to their inner magic.
See how they glow with confidence and ease.
Ask silently:
“What do you want me to know today?”
Listen.
Feel.
Sense.
Don’t force anything. The message may come as a feeling, a sentence, a color, an image, or nothing at all.
Whatever arrives is perfect.
If nothing arrives, trust that your creative self is still near, opening the doorway for you.
Step 5 - Place Your Hands Over Your Tools
Touch your notebook, your keyboard, your brush, your musical instrument, or whatever tool you use to create.
Say:
“I choose expression over perfection.
I choose presence over pressure.
I choose creation over fear.”
Let the words seep into your fingertips.
Step 6 - Take Three Creative Breaths
Breathe in: inspiration
Breathe out: doubt
Breathe in: courage
Breathe out: hesitation
Breathe in: your brilliance
Breathe out: the need to be perfect
These breaths clear the channel.
Step 7 - Begin the Smallest Possible Creative Action
Now, do something tiny.
write one sentence
doodle one shape
brainstorm one idea
hum one melody
take one photo
choose one color for a project
type one paragraph
make one list
speak one affirmation
This tiny action is the heart of the ritual.
It is the “create anyway” moment.
A tiny step shifts the energy.
It signals the universe:
“I’m here. I’m willing. I’m ready.”
Step 8 - Seal the Ritual
Place your hands together or over your heart and say:
“I choose to create my world, one brave moment at a time.”
Blow out your candle if you used one.
Or simply imagine the flame tucking itself inside your heart still glowing, still alive, waiting for the next moment you call it forward.
Optional Enhancements:
✨ A cup of herbal tea. Especially chamomile, lavender, lemon balm, or peppermint
✨ A playlist of soulful, instrumental, ambient, or nature sounds
✨ Incense or essential oils like sandalwood, jasmine, or orange
✨ A special journal reserved for “Create Anyway” rituals only
✨ A weekly creative altar, refreshed every Sunday or Monday
A Prayer for the Brave Creator
Dear Divine Source,
Gentle Spirit of Inspiration,
Breath of all things beautiful…
Today, I come with open hands and an open heart.
I ask for the courage to step into my creative truth,
even when doubts whisper loudly
and fears press against my ribs.
Remind me that the spark within me is holy.
Remind me that the ideas flowing through me
are not accidents
but invitations.
Guide me to create without apology.
To express without shrinking.
To share without hiding.
To trust the soft voice of my soul,
even when the world is noisy.
Let my heart be steady,
my mind be clear,
and my spirit be brave.
Release the fear of judgment from my body.
Release perfectionism from my shoulders.
Release comparison from my vision.
Let me stand in the fullness of who I am,
flawed, evolving, radiant, real.
May I remember
that what I create is not for everyone,
and that is a blessing.
For the ones meant to feel it,
meant to see it,
meant to breathe it in…
they will find it.
They will recognize me.
They will be nourished.
Help me honor the path I am walking,
not rushing, not doubting,
but blooming in my own rhythm.
Let my creativity be a form of devotion.
A whisper of gratitude to the Universe.
A returning home to my truest self.
And when resistance rises,
when inspiration feels far away,
when the world feels heavy,
remind me gently to create anyway.
For every act of creation
is an act of healing.
An act of rebellion.
An act of love.
Thank you for the light within me.
Thank you for the path before me.
Thank you for the courage to show up
as the artist, the storyteller,
the maker I was born to be.
And so it is.
And so I rise.
And so I create.
Until we dance through words again, may you trip over moonbeams, pocket stardust for later, and giggle with the universe itself.
Catch you in the next post, my sparkling daydreamers. Stay twinkly, stay fabulous. 🌙✨💖
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