Ready, Set, Release: Making Space for the Best of the Best in My Life
- Bruklan Starr LeFay
- Feb 26
- 5 min read

Creating space in our lives isn’t just about decluttering our physical surroundings; it’s also about making room in our minds and hearts for the extraordinary. When we clear away the clutter, we allow ourselves to blossom. This journey can lead to significant transformations, where we not only release what no longer serves us but also invite in the best experiences, connections, and opportunities.
My self-healing journey opened my eyes to the importance of both physical and emotional space. I feel lighter and more open to receiving everything life has to offer. Let’s explore the actionable steps to find this transformative process for yourself.
The Weight of Hoarding
Before I began my self-healing journey, my life resembled that of a 'hoarder.' I had physical items cluttering my space—unusable things laying about, trinkets collecting dust, and mementos stored in boxes but rarely looked at. It wasn’t just about the physical clutter. I had invested emotionally in past experiences and unresolved feelings.
At the height of my hoarding, I had many more things than I actually used or needed. This 'collection' didn’t bring me happiness; it caused anxiety and a sense of being overwhelmed.
The clutter became a barrier to my happiness and growth, stifling my potential rather than enhancing it.
Recognizing the Need for Change
The pivotal moment in my healing journey was realizing that I needed to clear out the mess I had created for myself with the help of so many people and things in my life that didn't do me any good. Slowly, the idea took shape: to make room for the best, I had to clear out what held me back.
I reflected on my life and understood that all of the clutter was blocking positivity from shining through. I made a commitment to myself: it was time to release what no longer served me. This meant not only deep cleaning my physical surroundings but also engaging in serious self-reflection.
Diving Deep: My Physical Space
I decided to start with my physical surroundings since they were the most visible. My decluttering process began room by room, and I asked myself some crucial questions:
Does this item bring me joy?
Is it useful or meaningful?
Am I keeping it out of obligation or guilt?
This decluttering process helped me experience an immense release. The more I donated, sold, or recycled, the lighter and freer I felt and the more healing occurred in my life on every level of my being.
This was not just a physical purge but also an emotional one.
Cleaning Up My Online World
In today’s digital era, our online lives can feel just as cluttered as our homes. Emails, social media accounts, and notifications can quickly overwhelm us.
I recognized the importance of cleaning up my digital spaces. I began unfollowing 100+ accounts on social media that didn’t inspire me, disabling unnecessary notifications, and unsubscribing from at least 75% of mailing lists. This digital declutter simplified my online presence, allowing me to focus on what truly mattered.
With a clearer digital space, I became more engaged and inspired, ready to connect with creators and communities that truly elevated my spirit.
Healing My Physical Body
Cleaning up my physical surroundings and online presence was only a part of my journey. I understood that to truly make space for the best, I needed to care for my physical body too.
Embracing a holistic approach to health was essential:
Nutrition: Although my nutritional focus is not yet perfected I do have an ideal way of eating I am constantly working towards.
Exercise: I prioritized movement through yoga, walking, resistance exercises, and even doing what I like to call, Goddess energy dancing. Regular exercise improves my mood and boosts my overall well-being.
Rest: I learned the value of quality sleep. Implementing a calming bedtime routine helps me wake up feeling refreshed and ready for new experiences each day.
Taking care of my body in these ways allows me to cultivate mental clarity, creating the kind of space where I could receive even more inspiration into my life.
A Clean Slate: My Mental Clarity
As I continued to declutter physically and digitally, mental clarity started to shine through. Unpacking the emotional burdens I had carried so long was necessary for my healing.
I engage in mindfulness practices such as meditation and journaling. Reflecting on my feelings is one of the many pathways to release stuck emotions. By addressing past traumas, I could let go with love and compassion.
This mental clearing significantly opened the door to welcoming new experiences and possibilities into my life.
Embracing the Lightness
Releasing physical, social, and emotional burdens made me feel lighter. It felt as if weights had lifted, allowing me to spread my wings. I noticed a wave of positive energy flowing into my life. Opportunities and real connections appeared as if they had been waiting for me to be more receptive to them.
This transformation shifted my perspective profoundly. Instead of feeling limited by my possessions or past experiences, I felt liberated. Welcoming new positive experiences is a thrilling prospect.
Ready to Receive Abundance
Embracing this newfound lightness led me to a crucial realization: I was ready to receive abundance. My journey taught me that creating space allows goodness to flow into my life.
Being open to receiving means welcoming new opportunities and connections into my life that are truly good for me. It’s about trusting that the universe is working for me. This mindset has brought a sense of joyful anticipation. Each day evolves into an exploration filled with potential.
Fostering a Growth Mindset
A vital part of my transformation involved cultivating a growth mindset, which I was not encouraged to embrace when I was younger. This openness to learning allows me to expand my horizons and truly welcome the best experiences.
I seek opportunities for growth through online courses, workshops, and other means. By surrounding myself with inspired people, I strengthened my commitment to making space for personal development.
Every learning opportunity is a step toward a bright future filled with promise.
Savoring Gratitude
As I created space, I developed a daily gratitude practice. Reflecting on what I am thankful for has proven powerful in keeping me aligned with the energy of abundance. Gratitude serves as a reminder of the goodness in my life and helps maintain a positive mindset.
I always encourage everyone to take a moment each day to recognize their blessings, regardless of size.
Gratitude acts as an energetic magnet, inviting more positivity into our lives.
Ready for the Best of the Best
After dedicating years to shedding what no longer serves me, I feel genuinely prepared. The best of the best is poised to enter my life. I will only allow the best of the best. It will be no other way for me.
This journey has taught me that the universe rewards those who create space on every level. It waits patiently for us to be open to receiving.
To all the creators and dreamers—now is your time. Take a step toward releasing what holds you back. You possess the power to transform your life by making space for extraordinary opportunities.
Embrace the Journey Ahead
The journey of making space for the best of the best is empowering. It goes beyond simply decluttering our surroundings; it is also about deep healing and growth.
By letting go of what no longer serves you—be it physical items or limiting beliefs—you create a foundation for new experiences to flourish.
Take an active role in your growth. Embrace the endless possibilities that arise from creating space and trust that your path is unfolding just as it should. You are not just emptying what no longer serves you in your life; you are inviting abundance in.
So, prepare yourself! Set your intentions and truly heal from the past. The best of the best is waiting, ready to be welcomed into your life. It is up to you to allow it in.
Remember if you need any professional advice please seek out the appropriate professionals. I am not nor do I claim to be a professional in any way.
Affirmation
I am letting go and opening to something greater.
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